Hi!
My name is Bettina Jane, but everyone just calls me B.J.
I think my life is pretty ordinary most of the time, however,
when I hear about other people's lives I realise how interesting
my life has been.
I was born in a small town in northern NSW called Coffs
Harbour. When I was about 2 years old my parents decided
to go to Japan for a working holiday. My Dad was lucky
to get work in Matsusaka, in Mie, so we stayed in Japan
for nearly five years.
I grew up thinking
I was a strange looking Japanese child! All my friends
had black hair and brown eyes, but I had blonde hair and
brown eyes. Sailor Moon was a very popular TV show, so
I decided I was Japanese just like Sailor Moon, with blonde
hair. When I was at Kindergarten (Yochien) and
primary school, I spoke Japanese and did classes with
all the other children. When I was at home I usually spoke
English, but usually it was easier to speak Japanese.
Even though Mum's Japanese was good, my Dad could not
understand very much so sometimes it was very frustrating.
It was harder for my younger sister when she learnt to
talk, as she went to day care (Hoikuen) and spoke
Japanese naturally. It all seemed normal to me at the
time, but now I see that it was a very strange situation.
When we returned to Australia it was a new country for
me. I did not remember living in Australia when I was
little, so everything was different. No one spoke Japanese,
and the study at school was difficult because it was all
in English. I was often very homesick for Japan and my
friends.
I went to a small school about 4.5 km from our farm.
There were only 16 students in the whole school. It reminded
me of a show I had seen in Japan, called "Little House
on the Prairie." My teacher was very good and worked with
me to help me build my English skills. I had the same
teacher for 4 years, from grade 3 to grade 6.
Now I am in year 11 at high school. I study Japanese
with my Mum as my teacher. My high school is also very
small, with only 105 students from grade 5 to year 11.
In Australia junior high and senior high are usually in
the same school. There are 14 students in year 11.
Now I am comfortable living in Australia, although I
hope to return to Japan later this year with some other
students from my school. I wish that other students could
travel and see different countries so that people would
understand each other. Perhaps if people grew up feeling
part of another country, as I feel part of Japan, then
the wars would cease. When we go to Japan this year we
will take 1000 cranes to Hiroshima from our school. It
is a small step; but a journey of a 1000 miles begins
with one step.